Bonding psycho therapy :
Powerfull help after a psychotrauma, eaven after a
dangerous traumatic brain injury
met to many mentally and often also physical wounded people in
all these hospitals after I had been attacked and allmost killed. Of cause our families suffered more, mentaly we
much traumatized to really feel much.
1993 I got violently
myself by a group of - lets say - 30 people and wounded at my brain in
a way I had
to be respirated artificially for five weeks and nourished eaven some
weaks more. Of cause this was and is
a physical AND a psychotrauma. What my comrads and me did not get in
hospitals was a efficient help for our psychotrauma. And this
is just what all this homepage is about: Help. Healing (at least mentaly, and thats a lot!)
I should not be able to express myself to good in English: I am German, and I did learn English only after Latin.
So if you live in a world of grey I do remember that. I was not sure I
still could see colours at all.
You or the traumatized
are no more able to remember many things? To bear a bit of stress? Or
eaven normal human realations tend to get stress? When the children
nead love? Or you nead love yourself - impossible?
Be sure I have lived
myself. But I
found help. Yes, there is help. I am sure it can help you too.
First I had got bonding
psychotherapy just to feel better. I had seen and heard hundreds of persons get much more
happy and successfull using Bonding Pschotherapy here in Germany - I was one of them. This helped me to make an exellent professional and political career.
after I have been attacked life dangerously by violent political
activists and no clinic or psychotherapists could help me. As a last, faint hope I tried
out if I could get happy again and found out Bonding Psychotherapy did help me exelently with my brain trauma.
I got much more happy than I could imagine - and there´s a big chance you can get much more happy than you can imagine too.
I have understood how I came back to a
real, often happy life. And
I do know other traumatized persons here in Germany got help with the
same powerfull therapy. Oh I have seen so many people suffer and get little help, that is
I want to make the therapy known.
Germany there is an eavel law from after last world war that says our
health system must only use psycho therapies known then before the
development of bonding psycho therapy. Maybe its against law I
came back into life with my heavy brain damage. And for our laws the
people that helped me are no psychotherapists for our system - but what
do I have to loose? To a system that has prefered to close its eyes
since 50 years?
OK, they do use bonding
therapy to help drug addicts. The onlyones who may act here are
officially trained psycho therapists. I´ve told you I never got
substantial help to get back into live in any rehab, in all of these
They do this against the
german law that never was changed. Bonding psycho therapy still must
not be used in Germany - according to our law. So I came back into live
helped by non medical practitioners. So do you believe this all is
nonsense? Do you really believe I rather should have stayed mentaly
I think the inventor of
this glorious therapy Mr. Casriel thought similar when he decided to
teach his methods indepently from acknowledged institutions like
universities. So why I do tell to you such unbelievible things, and why
to you? I only can show to you documents of the exellent professional results I got after bonding psycho therapy: http://www.deeskalation-so-nicht.de , (of cause in German language) .
So how many people can
act like me with a heavyly devasted brain? I´m alone, and of cause I´m
not perfect with a story like mine. But I remember a little like I´ve
acted as a professional politician. And I´ve got truth on my side ...
You may be astonished I
sung and played "Two
with real and virtual instruments, and of cause I made and published
more songs with lyrics in German language too. Like that
probably it gets prooved well
enough good help eaven after a
heavy brain & psychotrauma is really
very possible, eaven
when it was connected with a physical brain trauma.
(No band, with exeption of some of the garage-band-drum-tracs its all
me. Of cause this therapy did not get a single of my brain cells
back to live, but you can read the results here.)
The main issue with it is
you will not be left alone when you dare to feel your feeelings again.
That´s why it is called bonding psychotherapy. Whithout this
powerfull psychotherapy all my homepage here just would not exist - I was much to injured.
be sure your
feelings are still there behind a "thick defense". I did not
it before. Only when somebody was with me I dared to leave my defense
and I found out. I do hope als this song with its Geman lyrics can give you an impression I got back to mental health.
was developed by Daniel Casriel in
New York for to treat heavy drug addicts (First he called it "New Identity Process").
Mr. Casriel was a
therapist and president of the American Society of Psychoanalytic
Pysicians (at least I do think).
And bonding psychotherapy does much more. It helps at general psychic / emotional
problems as well as after traumata. This means: bonding-psychotherapy
is superior to other ways of
it after a trauma or with a "neurosis" - what a word! Any case Mr.
Casriel was quite successfull accelerating and ameliorating the
possibilities of psychotherapy.
The "secret" of bonding
psychotherapy is the reintegration of our emotions into our
personality. Emotions are usefull recources developed in our evolution.
How is this possible? Bonding
Psycho Therapy provides the best, the most powerfull reparenting
possible. Oh yes.
I am sure bonding
psychotherapy is the best psychotherapy, and that is why I want to tell
the difference: Of cause bonding therapists will talk about apropriate
behavior too, but the healing moment is when the participants can make
the experience beeing not left alone when they express their emotions.
So it is not talking about feelings, but making the experience somebody
will join you when you stop surpressing them.
Noone has to tell you
you are ok
with your emotions, when you can make the experience you are not left
alone eaven when you dare to stop surpressing them. So that is
just what Bonding Psycho Therapy
provides. I do call it reparenting.
not much new about what I am telling here. Several German bonding
therapists have published in the web they´ve seen bonding therapy help
after psychotraumata. It is just logical. I was to much injured to
down the URLs of the sites. I
just say it loud, and I tell it to the whold world, in English too.
I never got a formal education in psycho therapy. I earned my money
with small business politics and helping to improve german laws. If
some german states would not have decided not to protect people
consequently against left wing political violence, I newer would have
begun to work on the field of health politics.
never was in a political party, I just know how to argue consequently
politically. By example: Yes, I have got a live dangerous brain damage
must have a brain.
I had got pretty well
established with the help of bonding-psychotherapy.
|Getting you back in contact with your own
ressources bonding- psycho- therapy also is an exellent school of self- management.
enough pictures like this I am not afraid with translating problems for
to proove it.
To get more clear: 37 years old I got engaged as manager of the "society for the support of less burocracy" by the minister of justice of one of the German states.
bonding psychotherapy had made it possible for me to become a happy man
and a (I do believe) good father. Of cause it took some time to change
my life. Here a weekend,
there a weekend. First my parents payed, later I payed myself - soon I
had money enough.
After I had survived an attack and suffered a
life-dangerous brain injury it
helped me back into life. I had been to be respirated artificially for
5 weeks and nurished some weeks longer in 1993.
I knew how much
psycho- therapy had helped me before. I
felt that the conventional treatment did not help me enough now. So I
just tried it again - I couldn´ t eaven imagine how right this was.
The author 2009 >
made me able to lough on the picture 2009, to really live and not only
to exist were some sessions of bonding-psychotherapy. It had been
taking all the years from 2003 on till I got really efficient help,
lost years, for me, for my wife, and for my children.
And without bonding-psychotherapy all this homepage surely would not exist.
also I would not have
been able to write it in English some years later and after eaven some
more of bonding-psychotherapy - I m German. Remember : After beeing
wounded life-dangerously, with a brain that had been compressed and heavily bleeding abefore,
after 5 weeks of koma.
Eaven my results in
physical therapy often got better when I was back from bonding-
psychotherapy has been successfully used to help after traumata in
Germany before I found out it can do also that. I just tried it out.
Now I want to make people in
the hole world profit from this knowledge.
I do not think thats too
surprising. A am convinced that there are traumata at the root of every
neurosis. I have seen too often that after I had almost been killed I
fell back to old neurotic behavior I had overcome before.
That is what bonding
will not be left alone when the truth comes out. When we get back to
beeing persons full of emotions / feelings. Oh no, thats not an
obstacle to clear thinking, to beeing a gentleman or a lady, beeing
successfull in profession and private life. Its not talking about, but
Yes, I got the
success. The comfort and the success!
Or what do you think of this song... You may not understand German, but
You can hear I have got back my energy, and believe me - I had my fun
playing that funky music! In spite of having been allmost killed and
having been respirated five weeks long for my brain injury- if that is
not a good proof that bonding psycho
therapy works exellently!
Of cause there is more to
about this. I give you more from the perspective of a user - probably your pc will offer you a
translation from German. It might get quite interesting for you. And as
I can not know your
personal situation: Use a bit of common sense, don�t blame me for what
you might do!
To what chapters
you get from there? Emotionen .= functions of our emotions, Bonding = how this therapy does work, may be the
central chapter for you, Schaedel-Hirn- Trauma = bonding helps after a brain
Skandal.= why disregarding bonding
psychotherapy is scandalous, .zuBeachten = think before acting! . Impressum /
Kontakt = me & my
adress. Remember: All in German language.
Then the diagnosis of my
physikal and mental trauma and the progress of my early treatment once
I had no more to be respirated. First my
reha-hospital sent it to my insurance, and much later I asked there to
it. Medical talk, and of cause in German too.
seen whith the eyes of an experienced user. What interests me
is: Will we feel better after? Will we get along better? My
answer: Yes, there is a good chance! If you only could see me smile!
I do not want a single dime for all this. Now eaven "normal" psychic
problems are results of experiences little children once underwent as
traumatic. We should not be surprised our minds will react in similar
ways when undergoing a trauma when grown up.
Only a very good therapy
enabled me to produce this Bonding-Rap 20 years after I had been attacked and wounded life
2.) Bonding psycho therapy also is the
best psychotherapy for problems traditionally called
neuroses or traumata:
Bonding-Psychotherapy is healing
by integration of
all parts of our personality
This maybee is eaven more fundamental and
important than the first part of this subdomain, because it concerns the great majority of you
all, that do not believe they are "ill" - at least me and the most
people I have known would have protested.
lets say the most of us could use more success, more happyness - in
German we call it Erfolge and Glueck, the name of this homepage. The
Erfolg could eaven be a professional succes, oh yes, or a success in
love, I´ve had it all.
You are successfull.
Of cause you do not need psychotherapy. You just want to get more
successfull and eaven more happy. Maybe a better selfmanagement would
help. So you are right here. I have acted like this, made my
career, and got a happy man privately too.
are not that lucky, you want to change your life.
You need the best psychotherapy possible. I am pretty sure you can get
good informations here.
have hard times.
psychotrauma you do need help fore sure. Oh yes, I remember how
it feels. This
is why I made all this website and this special subdomain.
I got a heavy brain injury, had to be respirated artificially for five
weeks, and to be nurishes artificially eaven some weeks longer. I
do know how important help is. I have seen to many people suffer.
Right at this moment I want to make this
clear: Of cause with my crashed brain I am ill enough. I´ve got
thousands of anihilated brain cells. What I do here is much more than
to compensate my trauma.
should be clear: Nobody can work as a bonding therapist whithout a
proper education. Experimenting with therapists of a different
qualification would be quite irresponsible - Bonding Psychotherapy is
much to powerfull for that.
Here the International Society for Bonding